Celebrating
Allie & Kate
THE BIG
DAY(S)
October 10th and 11th
Starts 5pm on Friday
Dive Palm Springs
WHY
PALM SPRINGS?
It's Where We Met!
As many of you know, we were long-distance for the first 10 months of our relationship—Kate in Denver, CO and Allie in San Marcos, CA (where we live together now). After meeting "the old fashioned way" (i.e., on a dating app) and talking for a few weeks by phone and video call, we decided we were ready to meet in person. Rather than meet up in either of our home towns, we chose to meet at Dive Palm Springs. It charmed us so much the first time that is has become a favorite spot to sneak away for a long weekend. We hope you love it as much as we do!
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It's So Gay!
Palm Springs' history is deeply intertwined with the LGBTQ+ community, evolving from a discreet haven for Hollywood celebrities facing societal intolerance to a vibrant and celebrated destination for LGBTQ+ folks. The city provided refuge for those seeking privacy and community, paving the way for a strong LGBTQ+ presence that flourished with the establishment of bars, resorts, and supportive organizations. Today, Palm Springs is known for its inclusivity, hosting major LGBTQ+ events like Pride and The Dinah, and boasts openly LGBTQ+ leadership, reinforcing its legacy as a key LGBTQ+ travel destination and a symbol of acceptance and visibility.
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It's Perfect for a Fall Wedding!
We think Palm Springs is the perfect location for a fall wedding, with warm sunny days and pleasant evenings—a refreshing contrast to the cooling temperatures elsewhere. The city's stunning desert landscape, framed by majestic mountains, provides a gorgeous backdrop for celebrating our wedding outdoors and under the stars with you. Additionally, there are plenty of attractions and activities in and around Palm Springs for you to enjoy, such as great restaurants and bars to explore, hiking in nearby canyons, exploring museums, browsing art galleries, taking a midcentury modern architecture tour, or making the scenic trip up San Jacinto Peak on the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway.
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More Questions?
Take a look at our FAQ!
GETTING
THERE
Air
The closest airport is Palm Springs (PSP), with many direct and connecting flights daily from cities around the U.S.
Los Angeles (LAX) and San Diego (SAN) airports are both about a 2.5-3 hour drive, traffic depending.
Sleep
There are many great places to stay in Palm Springs, each with its own charm. Here is a list of our favorites! We encourage you to book soon, as October is a busy month in the desert! To partake in all wedding events, please book for both Friday and Saturday nights (October 10th and 11th).
Land
Taxis, Ubers, and Lyfts will take you where you need to go around Palm Springs, though a rental car is advised if you plan to travel further afield (e.g., Joshua Tree). There is limited parking at Dive Palm Springs.
Party
October 10th's ceremony, dinner, and after-dinner celebrations and October 11th's pizza party and movie night are all held at Dive Palm Springs. The address is 1586 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92264. A detailed schedule of activities is below. Looking for more to do in Palm Springs? Check out these recs!
SCHEDULE OF EVENTS
Friday, October 10
5pm
Welcome Champagne
Guests arrive at Dive Palm Springs. (Non-alcoholic option available.)
Note: As much as we love you and your kids, Dive Palm Springs is adults-only and our wedding celebrations are not child-friendly. If you plan to bring your child(ren) along to Palm Springs, please reach out and we can assist you in finding childcare.
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5:30pm
Ceremony
Guests take their seats and we say "I do!"
Note: Our preference is that everyone be fully present, without the distraction of phones and cameras. We will share out professional photos after the wedding. We kindly request that no photos of our celebration be posted on social media.
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6pm
Cocktail Hour
Try our signature cocktails and enjoy some delicious appetizers as the sun goes down over the mountains. ​
Note: The open-bar will feature a limited selection of beer, wine, cocktails, and non-alcoholic options. All appetizers will be vegan.
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7pm
Dinner
Guests enjoy a 3-course meal prepared by Palm Spring's inimitable Chef Justin and his team.​
Note: When you RSVP, you will select either a vegan or non-vegan meal.
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8:30pm
Drinks and Dancing Poolside
Enjoy a cookie (or two!) from Maya's, our favorite San Diego bakery. Continue the evening with music and conversation (dancing optional, but always encouraged). The bar will remain open. Palm Springs has a strict noise ordinance of 10pm, so we will end the night by then.
Note: Want to contribute to our playlist? Make sure to add your song recommendations when you RSVP!
Saturday, October 11
Daytime:
On Your Own
Sleep in as late as you want. Hang at your hotel. Take a midcentury modern home tour. Come over to Dive Palm Springs and swim in the private pool, just for our wedding guests. The day is yours to do whatever feels good. Let us know if we can help you plan the perfect day! Need some ideas? Look no farther.
Note: Want to join us to explore some of our favorite Palm Springs spots? We'll be headed up into the mountains on the aerial tramway, then to a favorite lunch spot, then to cool off with some ice cream. If you want to join us on the "Allie and Kate tour," just let us know when you RSVP.
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6pm
Pizza Party Poolside
Be back at Dive Palm Springs in time for Piero's brick oven pizzas, made onsite just for us. ​
Note: There will be a variety of vegan and non-vegan salad and pizza options. The bar will be open and will feature a limited selection of beer, wine, cocktails, and non-alcoholic options.
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7:3opm
Movie Night
Hang out under the stars for a movie poolside. We'll have popcorn, candy, and other fun treats. The bar will be remain open. Palm Springs has a strict noise ordinance of 10pm, so we will end the night by then. ​
Note: You'll love how Dive Palm Springs transforms for our movie night. You can even watch the movie from the pool, if you like!
WHAT TO
WEAR
Friday, October 10
For Friday night's ceremony and dinner, we're calling the dress code "poolside cocktail attire," but what does that really mean?
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Imagine you're sipping a spritz at a swanky French Riviera pool party.
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​​Think chic, fun, and a little bit glam.
No black tie, no flip-flops.
French Riviera meets Palm Springs.
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Still need some inspiration?
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Sundresses, jumpsuits, breezy suits, fun blazers, and dressy separates are perfect.
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Stylish sandals and statement sunglasses? Yes, please.
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Flip-flops, shorts, and t-shirts? Kindly leave those at the actual pool.​​​​
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As a non-binary couple, we also want to emphasize that we hope you will feel free to dress in a way that makes you feel fully yourself. No need to conform to gender norms at this wedding!
We will be outdoors! Temperatures in Palm Springs in October are often in the 80s or even 90s, and it cools off after the sun goes down. Check the weather and plan accordingly!
Saturday, October 11
On Saturday, you may want to consider the following when deciding what to pack:​​​​
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Swimsuits, flip flops, and a cover up if you'll be poolside
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Sturdy shoes, sport shorts, and a hat if you're hiking
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Shorts/skirts and a lightweight top if you're exploring downtown
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For the pizza party and movie night at Dive Palm Springs, we recommend you dress as you would for a nice dinner out.
Think shorts and a button-up, a skirt and blouse, a summer dress, or a romper.
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As with Friday, feel free to dress in a way that makes you feel fully yourself. No need to conform to gender norms!
We will again be outdoors! Check the weather and plan accordingly!
Don't Forget to Pack!​
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Sunscreen
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Lip balm
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A water bottle
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A swimsuit (if you plan to swim)